Tuesday, January 18, 2005

Nice guys finish last...

How true that is. The days leading up to my first date with Erika had me joking with he that I was going to 'kidnap' her after the date and take her home with me (to take her mind off her supossed x-boyfriend) and I honestly meant it in an innocent way. The day of the date arrived, we go rock climbing, go to the diner, and we had a great time! I joked with her again about 'kidnapping' her. Now she is in full agreement, totaly willing to follow me from Exton, to my house in NJ for the night. After talking for a few more minutes in my truck, I told her - sice it is supposed to snow tomorrow, why dont we postpone your visit until next week. she agreed. I go to give her a hug good night and she reaches up and kisses me. So I'm feeling good about my date and looking forward to next weekend! Well, next week never came. The following morning the X came over in the snow, and sweet talked his way back into her good graces... Most guys would have taken her 'yes' and not thought twice about it. I took the nice guy approach, now I'm left wondering "What If..."

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Sunday, January 16, 2005

Big Busness & E*

I'm usually a fan of big business, after all the advent of Home Depot, separate, Wal-mart, etc. Have introduced consumers to more selection and lower prices than ever before. Which is great! I'm all about lower prices and bigger selections... Until today. Today I was working on a project that I needed a few disposable paint brushes, I though to myself, man- it would be nice if a local hardware store still existed in the area. I would be able to run in and grab the brushes and run home in a matter of minutes. But, NO. Have to go to Wal-mart. On the way to Wal-mart I heard my 'favorite song of the week' on XM. The song is Gone by Montgomery - Gentry


This ain't no give it time, I'm hurtin' but maybe we can work it out, uh, uh, uh. Won't be no champagne, red rose, romance, second chance, uh, uh, uh. This is gone (Gone), Gone, (Gone), Gone, (Gone), Gone.

Gone like a freight-train, gone like yesterday. Gone like a soldier in the civil war, bang, bang. Gone like a '59 Cadillac, Like all the good things that ain't never coming back. She's gone, (Gone), Gone, (Gone)

That's one verse, I had tried to download the song 50 times to no avail, so while I was at Wal-mart I decided to look for (and buy) the CD. So now I have spent 4x more money on this trip than I would have at a local hardware store! Geez, I fell into the Wal-mart trap!

Back to the song, I immediately opened it, and listened to it three times on the way home. Upon arriving home I considered burning the song to a CD-R and mailing it to 'Tom' - It would be so fitting for him. On second thought, I decided that him acting like a jackass should render E* mine soon enough, so why waste the postage... ;)

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Tuesday, January 11, 2005

4th and long...

Why is my dating life mirroring the Eagles? Picture this - I'm heading into the playoffs winner take all, I'm up against the 5-year champ. This year the champ is aging, his game is slipping, can I pull off the upset? 12/31/04 game on! Normally upbeat and ready for the challenge, I push forward knowing that I am without my two biggest offensive weapons (the ability to date, and the telephone) armed with the only offensive weapon (work email) I engage the opponent, He's been in the game for years, he knows the game well, but I strike first. A conveniently scheduled network install, yields 3 hours at her house. (that has to be worth 3 points) later that night, the reining champ spends new years eve with her, (14 points) OK down 14-3 it's time for action , Its 1/1/05 I exchange several text messages with E* (3 points) , 1/3/05 We exchange several emails at work. (3points), 1/4/05 I receive a phone call out of the blue. TOUCHDOWN! (7 points) The score 16-14 I'm pulling away with this thing :) 1/6/05 I'm asked to join her and her friend for dinner (I score big! 14 points) for those of you keeping score, I'm now up 30-14 How can I be stopped! ;) 1/10/05 no contact - and the realization that while I'm here typing this silly blog, he is in bed next to her. (Score 28 for the champ) that's 30-42 and I'm losing - and in need of a plan. 4th and long, do or die, the game is on the line, one date would surely secure the surprising upset win for me, but how? The game's not over, stay tuned...

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Wednesday, January 05, 2005

DON'T SHOOT!!!

Tuesday 1.4.05

9:15pm:
Frank calls to tell me he is leaving work and to give him a half an hour head start and head over to pick up my receipt for my alarm.
9:36pm: As I am about to leave my house to head over Frank’s, my cell rings, It is E* Great! It’s my first opportunity to talk with her on the phone. We chat; I hop in the car, get gas, and proceed on to Frank’s house. As I get close, The cell phone loses reception (thanks AT&T/ Cingular or whatever you are calling yourself these days) I pass by Franks house in an effort to regain signal.
9:48pm: The beautiful E* calls me back, and I find a spot right off the main road to pull over and talk with out risking losing reception again. 12 minutes later, Another cell phone problem… this time it’s E* (Thanks Verizon)
10:01pm: I call her back, talk for 10 more minutes.
10:10pm: A Police officer pulls up next to me
10:11pm: A second police officer pulls up nose to nose with my truck. And the first officer walks up to my window and asks me what I’m doing, I politely tell him I was talking on the phone and to leave me alone. (OK, So I didn’t say the last part) anyway… I give him my license, then my registration and insurance card. He explains they had a call about a suspicious vehicle in the area. An tell him I was on the to see a friend a block away and there was no cell phone reception there, so I found a place to park to finish my call, because it is would have been illegal drive while talking on the cell phone in NJ. (OK, I didn’t tell hem that last part either)
10:13pm The second officer is out of the car walking around my truck looking in all my windows with the flashlight, and three additional Police cars pull up (and stay in their cars). Meanwhile, I roll down the passengers side window to accommodate the officers search, End the call with E*, and the officer begins to ask me what cell service I have, and tells me everything will be alright, provided I don’t have any outstanding ‘seatbelt tickets’. WTF – I didn’t think talking on the cell phone in a parked car with the parking lights on was breaking the law and warranted 5 police cars.
10:20: I was told everything checked out OK (No kidding!) and I was free to go. And that WAWA would be a better place to talk on the phone in the future. Gee, thanks. Next time I don’t get good reception I’ll go look for a WAWA. I may even use the pay phone…
10:25: stop at Franks, get the receipt, head home.
10:42: Safely in bed. What a night, what an interesting first phone call.

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Monday, January 03, 2005

All in...

I'm going 'all in' this year, the 'year of J' was a nice gesture, but I can't wait another twelve months for happiness. I have condensed the 'year of Jim' to a month and a half. That being said, by February 14, 2005 The following things WILL have happened.

1. A date with E*
2. A promotion at my current job
3. An Eagles Superbowl Win


Now, I will take care of the first two. And as Meatloaf sang, two out of three aint bad but that is not acceptable this year, I need more; EAGLES - SHOW ME SOMETHING! For an outsider, it may seem silly. But If I (and the Eagles) can accomplish those three items. I will be a very very happy guy; and that's important, [to me]

I'll report back on Feb. 15th.

Happy new year - It's on!

What will you have accomplished by Feb 15th???

*** UPDATE: I'll officially call it 2/3 Not too bad, Got the Job +1, Got the date +1, Eagles made it to the Superbowl +1/2, lost girl -1/2. ***

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lyric of the week...

I can't say it's exactly the lyric of the week since I have never posted a lyric before. But I do like the line & the song.

I don't want to be Anything other than what I've been trying to be lately
All I have to doIs think of me and I have peace of mind
I'm tired of looking 'round roomsWondering what I've got to do Or who I'm supposed to be
I don't want to be anything other than me

By the way, the song is "I Don't Want To Be" by: GAVIN DEGRAW and if you don't like it, You don't have to listen to it...

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Half empty...

Chevrolet has been making cars for around 90 years, would think that after 90 years of engineering, Chevrolet could calibrate a fuel gauge to read 1/2 a tank when it is actually half empty. Now I realize this is a pretty far fetched idea, but come on... I have Air bags in the dash and in both front seats. I have to install a module in order to replace my computer controlled radio. I have a built in satellite system that can phone the police if my airbags are deployed. But my gas gauge. That's too much to ask. I get 300 miles to a tank in my Trailblazer. 200 from full to 1/2 tank - 100 from 1/2 to the warning chime... Go figure.

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Sunday, January 02, 2005

Which came first the Chicken or the egg...

We have spent most of 2004 obsessing with Chicken - maybe we have it all wrong. Hence, my first revelation of '05 - EGGS!!! We did not eat enough eggs! After all, they are kinda Chickens before they were Chickens. (:



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Saturday, January 01, 2005

The year of the 'J'

2005 is the year of all things 'J'

Josh
Jim
J-S** :)

Josh- you get top billing, since I kinda stole your idea. :)

CHEERS!!!

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