Nice guys finish last...

How true that is. The days leading up to my first date with Erika had me joking with he that I was going to 'kidnap' her after the date and take her home with me (to take her mind off her supossed x-boyfriend) and I honestly meant it in an innocent way. The day of the date arrived, we go rock climbing, go to the diner, and we had a great time! I joked with her again about 'kidnapping' her. Now she is in full agreement, totaly willing to follow me from Exton, to my house in NJ for the night. After talking for a few more minutes in my truck, I told her - sice it is supposed to snow tomorrow, why dont we postpone your visit until next week. she agreed. I go to give her a hug good night and she reaches up and kisses me. So I'm feeling good about my date and looking forward to next weekend! Well, next week never came. The following morning the X came over in the snow, and sweet talked his way back into her good graces... Most guys would have taken her 'yes' and not thought twice about it. I took the nice guy approach, now I'm left wondering "What If..."